My Son’s 18th Birthday is Forcing Me to Reflect on Aging

Tomorrow is my son's 18th birthday. That means today is his last day of being a child, which means this is my last day of having kids. My daughter is 21 and bought a house last month. She's not coming home. My son is waiting to hear back from colleges where he's applied. I understand…

In Recovery and Addiction, Be Good to Others with Different Beliefs

When I ask people to guest post, it's usually because they have a point-of-view that I don't. I'm not suggesting anything overly radical, but they just have a different way of looking at addiction and recovery. Often, that means people with strong spiritual connections and beliefs. Morality usually plays a big part in spirituality, especially…

OnlyFans stats show its here to stay as part of The New Normal

When I speed-wrote, and speed-researched my most recent book, Porn and the Pandemic: How Three Months in 2020 Changed Everything, I was just crossing my fingers that by the time in was released in mid-summer, people would still be interested in the pandemic, as I assumed it would pass. Boy, I was wrong. And it…

Book Review: Sexual Intellectual Female by Regina G. Hanson

I know I'm supposed to say that I was provided this book for an honest review, but the reality is, I'm actually mentioned in the book. That's right...I'm included in a book called Sexual Intellectual Female. So yes, Regina did give me a copy, and yes I read it, and yes, I liked it. Much…

Betrayal Trauma Coaching is an Amazing Experience

I thought that the greatest thing that I've experienced since entering the coaching/advising realm was when I'd talk to a pornography addict for the first time and as he told his story, and recognized that I was not going to judge nor shame, you could see an invisible weight lifting off his shoulders. And then…