My Journey Into the Heart of Therapeutic Coaching

Like being an addict, I never planned on coaching until I was in it. People who read one of my books, heard an interview I gave, or stumbled upon the website would reach out. Whether it’s my compassionate heart, fear of saying no, or messiah complex, I’d try my best. A couple years ago, I…

OnlyFans Bans Sexually Explicit Material, But How?

Well, well, well. Pornographers chase the almighty dollar and the moment it is challenged they do what any businesspeople do, they change direction. Usually that means to some other means of selling, but in this case, it involves self-censorship and for those who have followed the explosion of OnlyFans in the last years, today is…

Pornography Addiction Better Than I Can Ever Explain It

I'm not a scientist and explaining pornography addiction is sometimes an area I get tripped up. I don't want to talk above people, but I don't want to talk down to them. Even when I'm on a podcast where I can't see the host's face, I know it's probably glazing over when I bring up…

‘Kevin Can F*** Himself’ is a Clever Betrayal, Gaslighting Study

There have been few truly great television shows in the last 20 years that have piqued my interest enough to check them out. Some shows I gave a couple episodes, like The Queen's Gambit or The Walking Dead. Some, like Breaking Bad or The Sopranos didn't interest me. I know all four of these are…

California Sober: Just Rationalizing a Marijuana Loophole?

I like California. I like sobriety. Shouldn't I like being California Sober? First, history. I smoked a lot of weed back in the day. Between 1997 and 2002, it was a daily occurrence, sometimes more than once a day…usually more. I recognized that I used not just for getting recreationally stupid, as many of my…