Pornography Addiction may no longer be limited to consumers in an OnlyFans world

If you’re under 33 years old – or a regular reader of this website – you’re well aware of OnlyFans and the tentacle-like reach it has with the young adults of the English-speaking world. If you’re over 33 years old, and don’t read this website, odds are you’ve still never heard of the site. In…

REDDIT: Anti-Racist? Yes. Anti-Porn? Nope.

It’s nice to see corporations put their money where their mouth is, or to put their actions where their words are and in the wake of the civil unrest of the last month, many organizations seem to be making changes, both substantial and symbolic, or in the case of NASCAR banning the Confederate Flag, both.…

What Do You Do When You Have Two Moral Positions on a Collision Course?

Aside from the obvious "Being a good husband/father/provider" answer, I believe that just about the most important thing in my life right now is being an advocate on the topic of pornography addiction. I've got a new book coming out in July, a much bigger announcement coming (within the month) and for the first time…

Empathy Does Not Mean Agreement, It Means Understanding

Way back when I was going through my legal ordeal, I had to take 101 assessment tests to determine if I was deemed a risk for "reoffending" because I committed a sexual offense. Everybody who ever administered a test or has been a therapist of mine knew the results before the tests happened, but it's…