Yes, Older Men, You Can Still Develop a Pornography Addiction

One of the challenging things about life during the pandemic, aside from everything, has been trying to explain to people that the statistics I've been citing for a while, most from studies between 2015-2018, were likely outdated. I think this is especially true with the youngest generation, but what about older men? I believe when…

Is There An Actual Definition of Pornography?

In the over 200 interviews or presentations I've given about pornography, there's one question that comes up more than every other, and I think a lot of people who are very passionate about this subject still haven't answered it in their own mind: Is there an actual definition of pornography? I do want to state…

My First Online Pornography Addiction Education Course Geared Toward Partners is Now Available!!!

I am very psyched to say that after many weeks and probably nearly 100 hours of work, my first online pornography education course is available through Udemy. It's called "Pornography Addiction Education for Partners" and for the next THREE Days (Sept. 3 to Sept 6, 2020) it is available for FREE. After that, it goes…

Pornography Addiction may no longer be limited to consumers in an OnlyFans world

If you’re under 33 years old – or a regular reader of this website – you’re well aware of OnlyFans and the tentacle-like reach it has with the young adults of the English-speaking world. If you’re over 33 years old, and don’t read this website, odds are you’ve still never heard of the site. In…

Betrayal Trauma is the Partner’s Fallout from Porn Addiction

I often find myself babbling during interviews, saying something that makes a lot of sense I’d never put into word. It’s kind of the same process as therapy. You may think you are babbling for 49 minutes. That 50th minute may be where the magic happens. Likewise, if you can get people to invite you…