New Trauma Book Featuring My Story Available Today for 99 Cents

After writing three books in the three years, I decided at some point in late 2020, after my most recent book didn't do very well in sales, that I'd take an extended break from writing. Behind the scenes, as I transitioned into being a coach, I also was transitioning away from being a freelance writer…

Update: OnlyFans backs off new ‘No Porn’ stipulation

I wish I could say I'm shocked, but I'm just disappointed in OnlyFans. A good friend forwarded this to me this morning: OnlyFans August 25 announcement Well that sucks. OnlyFans doesn't stand for inclusion, it stands for making money -- tons and tons of money. A ban on pornography was going to be put in…

OnlyFans Bans Sexually Explicit Material, But How?

Well, well, well. Pornographers chase the almighty dollar and the moment it is challenged they do what any businesspeople do, they change direction. Usually that means to some other means of selling, but in this case, it involves self-censorship and for those who have followed the explosion of OnlyFans in the last years, today is…

Pornography Addiction Better Than I Can Ever Explain It

I'm not a scientist and explaining pornography addiction is sometimes an area I get tripped up. I don't want to talk above people, but I don't want to talk down to them. Even when I'm on a podcast where I can't see the host's face, I know it's probably glazing over when I bring up…

The Duggars: A Study in ‘Be Careful What You Wish For’

Maybe it’s why everybody else watched, but truth be told, the Duggars seemed like a ticking time bomb from Day One. All you had to do was play the odds. The People magazine cover was only a matter of time. For those who are unaware, the Duggar Family is a large family who got famous…