Podcasts, Podcasts, Podcasts: Celebrating 250 Podcast Interviews

I used to celebrate myself all the time. Any excuse to draw attention to something I did so people would call me special was really one of the driving forces in my life. But I wasn't special. There are hundreds of film festival creators, thousands of magazine publishers and tens of thousands of city councilors.…

Yes, Older Men, You Can Still Develop a Pornography Addiction

One of the challenging things about life during the pandemic, aside from everything, has been trying to explain to people that the statistics I've been citing for a while, most from studies between 2015-2018, were likely outdated. I think this is especially true with the youngest generation, but what about older men? I believe when…

OnlyFans stats show its here to stay as part of The New Normal

When I speed-wrote, and speed-researched my most recent book, Porn and the Pandemic: How Three Months in 2020 Changed Everything, I was just crossing my fingers that by the time in was released in mid-summer, people would still be interested in the pandemic, as I assumed it would pass. Boy, I was wrong. And it…

Is There An Actual Definition of Pornography?

In the over 200 interviews or presentations I've given about pornography, there's one question that comes up more than every other, and I think a lot of people who are very passionate about this subject still haven't answered it in their own mind: Is there an actual definition of pornography? I do want to state…

Partners of Pornography Addicts: It’s Not Your Fault, Ever

I know that I say this in every interview and write it more than once a day as one of the moderators of the Porn After Love subreddit, but it bears repeating to the partners of pornography addicts: It's not your fault and it has nothing to do with you. My porn addiction was 12…