‘Pam and Tommy’ Forces a Shameful Reckoning

In the work I do, I don't frame pornography as a moral issue. It doesn't matter where you were raised, which God you pray to or whatever else has formed your worldview on pornography; moralizing divides. It doesn't unite. In fact, when you dig into one of my most overused presentation points, you'll see that…

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It’s Obvious: Now We’re Devolving in Society

I know the power words have. Since 17 years old, I've written hundreds (if not over 1,000) news articles that have appeared in newspapers, magazines and websites. I've also ghost-written a couple of dozen books and put my name on a few, as well. My professional life has been all about words. In my private…

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I’ve Yet to Recover From Being Told Nice Things

I know. I get it. With everything going on in the world, here I am addressing a new problem: I can't take compliments. At least it's not my opinion about something on the news. I joke, because I think on the surface it does seem like a superficial problem, but as I keenly remember my…

When an Old Guy Scores Big on TikTok

I love my blog and in four years of running it, I've amassed 600 followers. With LinkedIn, I'm at 3,500 followers in two years and in my year on Instagram, I'm somewhere over 1,500 people. And then there's TikTok. As I write this, in 18 days on the platform, I've amassed 9,600 followers. WTF is…

Guest Post: How Pornography Changed Monogamy

NOTE FROM JOSH: I was honored recently to participate in a fantastic summit currently being offered by my friend, Ruth Falk. I invited Ruth to share the reasons she created this free opportunity and share a little bit of her story. If you're interested in learning more about the Pornography Changed Monogamy summit, details are…