I often find myself babbling during interviews, saying something that makes a lot of sense I’d never put into word. It’s kind of the same process as therapy. You may think you are babbling for 49 minutes. That 50th minute may be where the magic happens. Likewise, if you can get people to invite you…
Continue reading ➞ Betrayal Trauma is the Partner’s Fallout from Porn Addiction
I like doing podcasts. It scratches a few internal itches that I have. They provide me with someone's attention for an hour, help continually remind me of my battle with pornography and alcohol addiction, allow me to spread an important educational message and are the easiest way to market my books. One of the things…
My parents raised me to think that one sip of beer would lead me, minutes later, to the destitute life of a wino, laying in the gutter, hiccupping while holding a bottle like an alcoholic cat out of a Bugs Bunny cartoon. I was also told smoking cigarettes was gross and would give me almost…
Continue reading ➞ Sorry Parents, You Can’t Porn-Proof Your Kids in the 2020’s
I realize that one of the things I don’t talk enough about on this site is what healthy sexuality looks like. I try very hard not to be an anti-porn crusader because I think it’s a waste of time, flies in the face of my beliefs surrounding personal freedoms (for both producers and consumers) and…
Continue reading ➞ Healthy Sexuality is Very Different from Total Abstinence and Self Denial
One of the areas that I’ve been starting to focus on with my porn addiction education is podcasts and radio shows that have a spiritual or religious audience. Most of them are Christian, which is perfect, because the statistics around Christians who use pornography far outpace that of the secular world. I was a leery…
Continue reading ➞ Christians Need a New Strategy to Battle Pornography Addiction
