Does NoFap Work? Depends If You Actually Have A Porn Addiction

This past weekend, I put up a meme on my Instagram page. I was just trying to get something up on my page as I'm trying to build a following and try not to miss a day. Sometimes, I share deep and painful thoughts. Sometimes, I just share a joke. My Valentine's Day share was…

Check Out My Short Film on Addiction/Recovery Posted to Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/p/CKrqaK-jQAJ/ Please, if you have a few minutes, check out this video I was asked to make for an Instagram page about addiction and recovery. I'm proud of it and hope it'll help a few people. Feel free to like and share and follow me on Instagram or other social media. It's always challenging to…

Check Out My Interview with One of My Favorite Bloggers

I've been learning Twitter and Instagram for the last few months and while I'm really enjoying those communities, the WordPress family will always be my first online family since entering recovery. The bloggers here are tremendous. There's a lot of recovery support on social media and you should check it out. But, you're reduced to…

OnlyFans stats show its here to stay as part of The New Normal

When I speed-wrote, and speed-researched my most recent book, Porn and the Pandemic: How Three Months in 2020 Changed Everything, I was just crossing my fingers that by the time in was released in mid-summer, people would still be interested in the pandemic, as I assumed it would pass. Boy, I was wrong. And it…

Betrayal Trauma Coaching is an Amazing Experience

I thought that the greatest thing that I've experienced since entering the coaching/advising realm was when I'd talk to a pornography addict for the first time and as he told his story, and recognized that I was not going to judge nor shame, you could see an invisible weight lifting off his shoulders. And then…