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Podcasting 101: Advice From a Professional Guest

I have been on between 275 and 300 podcasts. That's more episodes than most individual podcasts ever produce. Yet, for the first time the other day, when I was finishing recording a podcast that will come out in November, the host asked what advice I could give him. The host was good, but had some…

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Horror Stories: Marriage Counseling is not Addiction Counseling

I hear a lot of out-of-the-ordinary things as a trauma and addiction coach. As a recovering addict and someone who worked through a lot of trauma, my story has its share of drama. No shame and no judgment, but there are so many people who have been through worse than me. Disturbingly worse. The people…

Update: OnlyFans backs off new ‘No Porn’ stipulation

I wish I could say I'm shocked, but I'm just disappointed in OnlyFans. A good friend forwarded this to me this morning: OnlyFans August 25 announcement Well that sucks. OnlyFans doesn't stand for inclusion, it stands for making money -- tons and tons of money. A ban on pornography was going to be put in…

My Journey Into the Heart of Therapeutic Coaching

Like being an addict, I never planned on coaching until I was in it. People who read one of my books, heard an interview I gave, or stumbled upon the website would reach out. Whether it’s my compassionate heart, fear of saying no, or messiah complex, I’d try my best. A couple years ago, I…

OnlyFans Bans Sexually Explicit Material, But How?

Well, well, well. Pornographers chase the almighty dollar and the moment it is challenged they do what any businesspeople do, they change direction. Usually that means to some other means of selling, but in this case, it involves self-censorship and for those who have followed the explosion of OnlyFans in the last years, today is…