What Do You Do When You Have Two Moral Positions on a Collision Course?

Aside from the obvious "Being a good husband/father/provider" answer, I believe that just about the most important thing in my life right now is being an advocate on the topic of pornography addiction. I've got a new book coming out in July, a much bigger announcement coming (within the month) and for the first time…

I Hope More Black People Share Their Stories of Daily Racism, Bigotry and Prejudice

People -- including me -- quite often lament how facts and statistics seem to be ignored these days in favor of some cherry-picking whatever supporting material and opinion is out there to back-up their position. Whether it's the "All Lives Matter" or "COVID is just the flu" crowds, they don't seem to need much to…

Empathy Does Not Mean Agreement, It Means Understanding

Way back when I was going through my legal ordeal, I had to take 101 assessment tests to determine if I was deemed a risk for "reoffending" because I committed a sexual offense. Everybody who ever administered a test or has been a therapist of mine knew the results before the tests happened, but it's…

Indigenous People’s Day vs. Columbus Day vs. Porn Addiction Education

In Maine, today is no longer known as Columbus Day. The governor signed a law stating that we are now celebrating Indigenous People’s Day. Those who wanted the holiday renamed said that it celebrated a man who did far more harm than good to the native people of the Americas. I read an article the…