‘Radical Acceptance’ Has Been Crucial to My Successful Addiction Recovery

One of the more important tools I developed in recovery has been the practice of radical acceptance. I was once called out for not having any radical acceptance ability when I was in rehab and it forced me to reflect on the accusation. Several of the residents were allowed to attend an “outside” 12-step meeting,…

Guest Article: Making Early Porn Addiction Recovery Easier

Note From Josh: When Patrick Bailey asked if he could share the following article, I thought it was perfect. Learn more about Patrick, and his extensive health writing, at the end of this article. By Patrick Bailey Living in recovery from porn addiction can be a lifelong process full of challenges and wins. There are…

Q&A Time: Should I Go to Inpatient Rehab for My Addiction?

QUESTION: I have been told by my girlfriend that she thinks I should go to rehab for my porn addiction. I don't think I need to leave for a month because it's not that bad. What should I do? ANSWER: This is probably worth a conversation with a professional so they can weigh-in. Assuming they…

In Overcoming Addiction, Long-Held Dreams Can Still Come True

It’s fascinating how things work out. Andy Dufresne just wanted to work on a boat project and the younger version of Joshua Shea just wanted to walk into a library and see one of his books on a shelf. Life got in Andy’s way. He was falsely accused of killing his wife, ran a sweet…

Q&A Time: Reader asks question about husband’s pornography addiction

Note: I was asked to post about this question based on something else I wrote. If you'd like to have a question answered, contact information is at the end of the answer. QUESTION: Could you please post about how a wife should focus and respond when her husband is addicted to pornography and will not…